Comment: I actually only have my mom and my husband's mom.

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I actually only have my mom and my husband's mom.

My dad passed suddenly.

"and so does she"

Yes, it is hard to age and loose ability. Hard for both the care giver as well as the recipient.

I enjoyed the morning with my mom today. She is 70 and in good health. My mother-in-law is 81 and still working!

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