My sister and my sister-in-law have been sending our mothers to each other for years, and they are not nearly as much work as your father needs, of course they are 15 years younger, so things might change on that front.
I hope you are taking advantage of whatever VA or Medicare can offer as far as assistants that can come in and help you. Your father has paid for this assistance, and you deserve it.
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