Skippy d is a "she". As I mentioned in my post, the stress of being a caregiver can be overwhelming and the way I saw it is that she got too overwhelmed and lashed out in comments on DP, which got her banned.
Because I am also a caregiver for a loved one, I understood what was happening to her but, unfortunately, I did not have the time or wherewithal to do that post until after she was banned. I had hoped the Mods would read it and reconsider the banning. I know fishy is back and, perhaps, in time, skippy d will also return to us.
Anyway, that post is there for anyone who needs info, has info to share or anyone who just needs to know he/she isn't alone and that there are others in the same boat and sometimes we just have to have a blowout to release the stress. Posting a rant on THAT post, under those circumstances, shouldn't have bad consequences. I'm just sorry I couldn't do it before skippy d lost it.
Of course, anyone can post a note of encouragement for us there, too. We do need it.
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