Comment: I believe most people want to pass

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I believe most people want to pass

on their own terms, not one set by a friend, or even a best friend. We are a diverse group of people. It's not our business to tell anyone how to live or lose their life (eg imposing our will upon others). Suggestions are okay, but only if the person is open to receive them or asks. Most people are able to observe other people's behavior and either mimic or do the opposite.

Losing friends sucks, but we don't get to choose their fate, sometimes even our own. I know more people who have died than those who have been born.

My condolences. I know it hurts. But your friend may be in eternal bliss cradled in the womb/heart of the universe and you may never know what took him out. Truth will come once we take our final breath.