Comment: The priest is telling me to shut up until I know for sure

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The priest is telling me to shut up until I know for sure

and I wont know until after the ceremony. should I say ," Dear a one night stand from 3 years ago just said I might be the dad?" 2 weeks before the wedding? Might it be better if as soon as I get back and take the test, " Dear as soon as I came back I had to answer this paternity test and it seems i am the dad from a one night stand from 3 years ago"