Comment: Just buy a shovel and start digging now.

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Just buy a shovel and start digging now.

If you ask me, all those who tell you to keep this a secret are foolish and short sighted. I think they are giving you the worst advice in the world.

Let me just ask you if the tables were turned, how would you feel about her if you found out after the wedding. There was some chance she had an illegitimate child before she married you and SHE KNEW THIS and yet let you go along with this happy little illusion of marriage.

HOW WOULD THAT MAKE YOU FEEL?

I know how I'd feel. Suckered. Trapped. Betrayed. And by the way the vows you just made to me? Are NULL AND VOID. At the moment you gave me your most solemn vow you were holding something back. Something more than like an unpaid electric bill. We're talking about a KID for chrissakes and child support payments and a whole new member of the family!

Don't blow this one. There's only one right answer. Man up.

There is nothing strange about having a bar of soap in your right pocket, it's just what's happening.