Comment: ok, you have a point. if he

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ok, you have a point. if he

ok, you have a point. if he feels honesty is the best policy, he can tell his future wife, but, the point is, at the current moment he has no financial or emotional attachment to the child.

and it's his decision whether or not to keep it that way.

get the test, comes out positive, and he's jsut ruined his fiance's life all because he wanted to feel less guilty himself.

it's the classic transfer of guilt. you make yourself feel better by hurting the one you love.