Comment: Good question

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Good question

It is being responsible for myself. Take care of myself first so those who I love do not feel the need to do that for me.

For example "You make me so mad!" evokes a need for others to behave differently as not to "Make me mad" I must be responsible for my own feelings.

If I can do this then my relationships with others do not overwhelm them with my needs. Then I have something to give,

Responsibility is the foundation of freedom.