The church actually exalts women. Do some real studying on Catholicism because you sound like you're reading from some 1960s Marxist propaganda pamphlet. :-)
Women are to men as Christ is to the Church.
Birth control was not allowed even by protestants until very recently when they decided to 'modernize'. prohibition on birth control is not controlling, it is in line with God's will and the nature of mankind and the purpose of sexuality.
as far as the pederasts, they will be taken care of in the hereafter for certain. There is evil and corruption inside the church which allowed & facilitated this. However, the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.