Comment: Exactly...

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Exactly...

We're on the same page there. :)

No one is to be forced to embrace or to withdraw from participation in love, but as they voluntarily move in either direction, they will learn what the effects are either way. Kind of like being free to either pursue health or opt to be a couch potato -- free choice, but with differing effects. And some of those effects can actually either increase or decrease our freedom (poor health will make us less free to act than good health).