Kidnapping is physical violence. Physical violence is wrong. Therefore we can't ever throw anyone in jail.
Taking someone's money against their will is stealing. Stealing is wrong. Therefore no one can ever be made to pay a fine if they don't want to.
Making a child face the corner and be quiet is bad parent/child interaction. Bad parent/child interaction is wrong. Therefore is wrong to give a child a time out.
All punishment is ALWAYS something that, in the context of innocence would be wrong, but is made just by virtue of the guilty party having earned it through misbehavior.
The condition upon which God hath given liberty to man is eternal vigilance; which condition if he break, servitude is at once the consequence of his crime and the punishment of his guilt