Comment: here's a decent article

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here's a decent article

let's see if we agree with this author:

the great psychologist albert ellis felt that labeling someone was close to blaming them, and both were not good for your mental health. a person is many things, not just one. he or she might have acted like an asshole in one instance yet still is a good parent, neighbor, musician etc.