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Response to CA Prop 8: Defining marriage

I just got a well-meaning letter from a well-meaning friend who, well, means to grow support for Proposition 8.

Prop. 8 in CA is about making one man/one woman the legal definition of marriage for the Golden State.

My response to her is below. For the record, I have my own concept of what "ideal marriage" is, but I also strongly believe that neither my concept nor anyone else's is the government's business whatsoever.

Let me know what you think of my response. There is a lot of energy being expounded on this proposition here in CA; already I've received some mailers supporting it, and have seen nothing printed or said against it -- not that those don't exist; I simply haven't come across any, myself, which shows where the strength is regarding this proposition.

Here's my response:

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Dear (friend),

First off, thank you for sending your email. We are often too easily cowed in shying away from expressing our political views, lest they upset friends and family, thereby potentially causing discord. But we do need to stand up for what we believe is right. Our nation needs us right now, more than ever.

That being said... (!) :)

I personally agree with you on the one man/one woman definition of marriage. However, I cannot support Prop. 8. I hope you will take a moment to read my view, as I took time to read yours.

Voting for Prop. 8 is a vote which says, "Yes, government; YOU get to legally define marriage. We're putting that definition in your hands."

There is no reason whatsoever to grant government the right to say whether we are or are not married. If we assign to government the power to claim that we are married, we are also assigning to government the power to claim that we are not married. Just because government has not yet exercised that power does not mean they never will. This assignation should never have been on the books in the first place.

That may sound far-fetched, but I want to be clear: any time we assign to government that which is not theirs, we abdicate our own sovereignty. And NOTHING is "theirs" (government's) but that which we do assign. Remember, the Constitution was not written up in order to grant us rights; it was written up solely to put restraints on the government. Look at how many of our God-given rights, protected in writing in the Constitution and Amendments, have been ignored, dismissed and outright violated by our own government. The only amendment in the Bill of Rights which has thus far not been violated is the 3rd. When those sacred rights are abused and ignored, what makes you think marital laws would be shielded from violation?

From your own email:

"...their parental rights to control the teaching of moral issues to their kindergarten age child is being usurped by the state."

This is what comes of granting marital authority to government. That couple's parental rights are being usurped by the state because we as a nation have not revoked the authority over marriage (and therefore family) that we granted government by assent long ago!

Marriage is a covenant between two people (and their God, if they believe in one). The sole excuse for the government to be involved in this highly personal transaction in any way, shape or form is for monetary control (taxes, etc.) and therefore control over the persons involved in the marriage and, by extension, family. And it is, indeed, nothing more than an "excuse," for there is no reason to be found in such an arrangement.

Shall we ask government's permission as to who our friends might be? Logically speaking, if we grant to government the authority over who we may marry, why shouldn't it follow that we grant the same authority to government for selecting our friends? It makes just as much sense.

The government has no legal jurisdiction over marriage whatsoever, unless we assign that jurisdiction to government ourselves.

I, for one, shall have no part of it. Not even when it comes packaged in good intentions.

What I will do, is urge you to visit the Campaign For Liberty, and see why more than 100,000 people have already become members in this cause for restoring a Constitutional Republic to our nation.

Fondly,
(fanofwalt)

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I wonder

if these kind of issues are put on the ballot by one or the other political party to get certain types of voters to the polls?

Appearantly, in last nights debate Chuck Baldwin admitted that he is against gay marriage. This election is looking grimmer and grimmer. Nader wants to bailout the homeowners who made risky loans. Barr can not be trusted.

I only want Ron Paul as President.

Yah.

Yah they put this crap on the ballot to 'get out the vote.'
Yah things are looking grim.
And Yah... I only want Ron Paul as President.

agreed

well put

Thank you

Billyboy

It's very simple, actually

It may sound brash, but it's the undeniable truth, and the MamaBears of the world need to notice, and perhaps actually read the CA SC ruling to see their arguments totally demolished.

"Marriage is about love and commitment, not what is between your legs."

More Research Needed on Your Part, Not Mine

Actually, Tannim, you appear to be the one who needs to do more research. You even admit this fact yourself in your later posts where you declare yourself to be ignorant about the multiple court cases around the country regarding homosexual rights vs individual and private business rights.

Just about every legal analyst alive freely admits that the California Supreme Court ruling (which was only a 4-3 decision, by the way) goes farther than any other ruling of its type. This ruling was even broader and more sweeping than the Massachusetts ruling which allowed same gender marriage. The California ruling covers far more than just marriage. It actually declares all laws unconstitutional which might be construed as being discriminatory to homosexuals. It does declare homosexual marriage to be an inherent right. This is what I have been saying, and again, multiple legal analysts, media reports, and lawyers I have spoken with personally do not disagree with me on this issue. So your problem with this interpretation would be......?

As to why everything I have discussed here hasn't happened yet, give me a break! First of all, this ruling only went into affect a few months ago. Second of all, everybody is waiting to see the outcome of Prop. 8, which qualified for the ballot soon after the ruling came out. What lawyer or judge in his right mind would start legal proceedings on an issue shortly before a constitutional amendment is about to be decided? That would be a complete waste of resources because most cases aren't settled that fast and the law could be changed before any decision was made. And as far as the taxes go, um, it's not tax season yet. What a completely juvenile argument to say that because all the things I discussed haven't happened yet they won't happen.

And speaking of lawsuits that are already happening, you don't have to look very far to find these. For instance, in New Mexico a photographer was fined $6,000 for refusing to accept a commission to photograph a same gender unification ceremony. And New Mexico doesn't even have the laws California now has. In Michigan, a religious publishing company is facing a $60 MILLION lawsuit brought on by a homosexual man who says the Bible they print causes him to suffer. And Michigan doesn't even have the laws California now has. And speaking of California, in August of this year the California Supreme Court let loose with another dandy. They ruled that medical doctors do not have the right to refuse any type of medical treatment to homosexuals. About the only time this was an issue was when fertility doctors wouldn't artificially inseminate lesbians and would refer them to other doctors instead. Now - regardless of religious persuasions - these doctors will be forced to perform this procedure. Considering other doctors are willing to do this, why must we force any doctor to violate his conscience?

Furthermore, a homosexual activist group called the Triangle Foundation has openly announced its intentions to legally challenge any institution who refuses to recognize homosexual marriages. Call me crazy, but I take them at their word. Even if by some miracle every lawsuit this group brings winds up being dismissed (which I seriously doubt, especially considering the wording of the Supreme Court's ruling), how does harassing churches and business owners for following their religious beliefs promote freedom? Hmmmm.......I would have to say it doesn't. As a matter of fact, it would seem quite the opposite is true.

Sorry, Tannim, despite your flurry of strongly worded posts, I stand by my original assertion. A 'no' vote to Prop. 8 is a 'yes' vote to more government intrusion into our lives and less freedom for all.

Nope. MamaBear, still wrong.

Don't argue with a guy who not only has read and analyzed the ruling but also has followed the story from day 1 and wrote the ballot anaylsis for the LP on the issue. You will not win.

Had you known anything on this you would also know that the CA ruling was applied directly and completely according to CA law--no other state law and NO federal laws. It was state only. Furthermore, had you done your research into the CA state constitution you would have seen that the CA laws are far more reaching than most states on these issues, and the CA SC ruling was in line with those precedents and is compeltely consistent with the state constitution.

And marriage is an inherent right under the state constitution, and so is protection from discrimination. The federal precedents that would apply, had they been applied, and they weren't, are Lawrence v. Texas and Loving v. Virginia. Maybe you ought to go read them, Loving first, since it's older.

Your lawsuit comments have no bearing on CA since they are not in that state and therefore irrelevant. Plus, they come straight out of the Yes on 8 talkign points sheet that I got in the junk mail two days ago--after I had already voted NO on 8 absentee.

BTW, the pro-8 people have been busy in CA, challenging per-election the AG's ballot title as well, so your argument about no legal action prior to the elecetion is completely false and shows an ignorance of what is going on.

As for the medical ruling, it was correct. When a medical professional enters the door of the workplace he is bound by his medical oath first and foremost, as well as his licensure rules, and his refusal to treat anyone goes against that oath and is malpractice. CA is a "shall-treat" state, remember? If a doctor wants to not see people he finds objectionable, he can always move or change professions.

Triangle Foundation is wrong, and yes, you are crazy. A church has every right to refuse to recognize a same-gender marriage, under the Free Exercise Clause.

And you still don't seem to undertsand what is patently obvious to the rest of us who don't look at this through your foggy glasses: removing a government prohibition is _by definition_ opening up freedom.

Don't want a same-gender marriage, then don't have one.

Still Right.....With Citations

Tannim, I continue to be completely unimpressed by you and your inability to understand what other people have written and then make a coherent and consistent argument. This is the last time I will bother to waste my time on you.

First of all, if you don't want anybody to argue or disagree with you, why the heck are you here? If you want nothing but a touchy feely love session where everybody has the same warped views as you, call up your LP buddies and have a good ol' rap session with them. Otherwise, stop your sniveling about people arguing with you. And as far as not “winning” goes, I'm not quite sure what your definition of winning is. If your definition of winning is convincing the other person that you are right, then I've got news for you - you're not winning either. (Hope that doesn’t bring on more sniveling on your part!)

And as far as what the court based its decision on, the SC does repeatedly reference the US Constitution's equal protection clause, as well as equal protection clauses and cases from a host of other states. As a matter of fact, it even references the Loving and Lawrence cases you refer to. (By the way, the decisions in both these cases actually support my argument, not yours. Perhaps YOU should try reading them. In the first instance, the court broadened the definition of marriage, and in the second, the court threw out a state sodomy law. So as I've argued, courts tend to uphold broader definitions and homosexual rights. And neither case addressed religious freedom in regards to homosexuality or homosexual marriage, so these cases don’t prove whose rights would win out over whose.) You see, judges don't live in a bubble. They constantly look to precedent and what is happening in various courts. (For instance, they recognize the fact that a similar case was pending in Connecticut, which has since been decided.) While ultimately California law applies to California decisions, this is not all judges look at. The same is true at the federal level. That is why we have federal Supreme Court justices citing international law even though that law is supposed to be completely inapplicable here. Judges are human and look to other judges' opinions when writing their own opinions.

Which brings me to my next point. You assert that cases decided outside of California have no bearing on Californians. All you have to do is read court opinions to know that is a completely false claim. As I said before, judges look around them to see what other courts are deciding. Other state and federal court decisions DO play a role in the opinions put out by our courts.

And in case you didn't notice, I've been writing all of this for over a week, long before the Yes on 8 mailer arrived in anybody's mailbox. In fact, I only received that mailer yesterday. I am not affiliated with the Yes on 8 campaign in any way, shape or form. The fact that somebody else did the same research as I did and came to the same conclusions actually bolsters my argument, it doesn't detract from it.

As far as legal action goes, you are spinning yourself in circles again. You previously asked why legal action hasn't been taken against individuals and churches yet. I responded with the obvious "duh" answer that you should have been able to figure out yourself. Now you are citing legal action in regards to the description of the proposition. This action was taken by proponents of Prop. 8, not homosexual activists suing for their rights. Um, yeah, two entirely different things. But I won't waste my time trying to explain this simple difference to you if you don't get it already.

The medical ruling also proves my point. You are apparently unaware that California does have a religious "opt out" law for doctors. For instance, doctors cannot be forced to perform abortions if it violates their religious beliefs. However, when the doctors used their religious beliefs to refuse to perform artificial insemination of a lesbian, they were denied their religious rights. This is exactly my point. Once again, religious rights are denied in favor of other group rights. To say that a doctor gives up his or her religious rights when they enter the workplace is a very disturbing concept. That is like the schools telling students they lose their 1st Amendment rights while on campus. We should NEVER be willing to give up rights based on location - EVER! Your assertion to the contrary belies your obviously biased views in regards to the issue at hand. (And before you start up some inane argument about life issues, this doesn't apply to doctors treating life or death cases because that would be denying another person their right to life, which is paramount.) And are you really suggesting that every doctor who opposes certain medical practices based on religion should quit or leave? WOW! Good luck finding enough doctors to go around if this were to happen! Dr. Paul himself would never have been able to practice medicine!

And now for the citations which you seem to be so desperately craving (and in obvious need of). Enjoy!

"In its decision in Opinions of the Justices to the Senate, the Supreme Judicial Court of Massachusetts, by a closely divided (four-to-three) vote,
declared that the proposed legislation would violate the equal protection and due process clauses of the Massachusetts Constitution." (example of citing other states' court rulings)

"Although all parties in this proceeding agree that the right to marry
constitutes a fundamental right protected by the state Constitution, there is considerable disagreement as to the scope and content of this fundamental state constitutional right." (In other words, the Constitution doesn't define marriage. Prop. 8 is trying to rectify that situation.)

"Numerous decisions of the United States Supreme Court, in discussing
marriage and the federal constitutional right to marry, similarly recognize that the significance of this right lies in its relationship to the establishment of a family. (See, e.g., Zablocki v. Redhail (1978) 434 U.S. 374, 386)
[“[Marriage] is the foundation of the family and of society, without which there would be neither civilization nor progress”]; Smith v. Organization of Foster Families for Equality & Reform (1977) 431 U.S. 816, 843 [describing marriage as “[t]he basic foundation of the family in our society”].)"
(Not only an example of citing federal rulings, but this also lays out the precedent for the Prop. 8 argument.)

"As we noted in Hernandez, supra, 41 Cal.4th 279, 299, footnote 12: “In
applying the federal equal protection clause, the United States Supreme Court has applied a third standard — ‘intermediate scrutiny’ — ‘to discriminatory classifications based on sex or illegitimacy.’ (Clark v. Jeter (1988) 486 U.S. 456, 461.)” (Another example of citing the federal equal protection clause.)

"....either within the meaning of statutory prohibitions on sex discrimination or for purposes of the equal protection clauses or equal rights amendments contained within the federal and various state constitutions)" (ditto)

"...in discussing the factors that are relevant under the federal equal protection clause to the issue of suspect classification, the court explained:......." (ditto)

"....this court invalidated, as violative of federal equal protection principles, a state initiative measure that purported to overturn recently enacted state laws prohibiting racial discrimination in housing." (ditto)

Now what was that you were saying about not citing anything other than California law? Certainly the court's opinions must be based on and be in accordance with California law, but that does not preclude the judges from considering other precedents, laws, and state constitutions. That was my point, now backed up by citations. And now Tannim, I leave you to your whining. I'm out of here!

sorry Mama

I'm a Christian and my kids go to a Christian school. You're homophobic. If you replace "homosexuals" with "blacks", I could see this being written by some white guy from Mississippi in the 1950s. I've never really looked into it, but I'm pretty sure that there are cults and satan worshipping sects out there. Pretty sure they are multiplying and going to your kid's school. It's their choice, not yours. Don't get involved meddling in others' business. God gave us free will. We alone make choices, not through the hegemony of others' beliefs. Other countries dictate godly beliefs through the rule of law. We weren't set up that way.

Well, one more time

MamaBear, I hope you don't see what I have to say as condescending towards you. I'm just trying to point out how I see it in contrast to how you see it. So please don't read what I have to say as being mean. So far, I think the conversation, although difficult to follow with all the branching, has been pretty good.

My problem with how you are viewing this is that you say it denies some people their basic freedom of religion based on some current lawsuits and potential lawsuits, forcing people to deal with homosexuals when they would rather not. To me, it sounds like your solution is to deny homosexuals their rights to define what a marriage is based on their beliefs to allow the other group to stick to their beliefs.

I won't deny that lawsuits are a problem in this country, but that also stems from the government involvement in our personal business. I can't comment on the 3 lawsuits that have been mentioned here, since I don't know the specifics of them. I don't know how the different business were set up or what non-discrimination laws they were under.

However, I do not think the threat of possibly making someone deal with homosexuals is enough to deny certain individuals their right to live as they see fit. Your entire argument is that you are okay with government intereference as long as they interefere in your favor. If the government did make a church marry a same-sex couple against their wishes, that would be bad, and that needs to be fought. But you can't fight bad with bad.

Good Post, Norbert

At the end of the day I am well aware of the fact that most of us will have to agree to disagree. We probably aren't going to change each other's minds here. This is largely because we are dealing with an issue where everybody is going to feel like somebody's rights are violated no matter what the decision is. That's never a happy situation to be in. I will make one final plea for my case though.

Since 1999, homosexual couples in California have had all legal benefits and privileges afforded to heterosexual couples. They have been able to live as they please without any more government interference than any of the rest of us have to put up with. They have been able to live together, get tax breaks, share insurance and other work benefits, have children, etc. Legally, a homosexual relationship was already equal under the law to a heterosexual relationship in every way shape and form. Of the 3 lesbian couples I know, I don't believe any of them ever felt oppressed in any way. They were supported in their lifestyles by both their families, friends, and communities. At the same time, because this relationship was called a civil union instead of a marriage, religious rights were also fully protected. If a church or other private establishment wanted to perform a union ceremony they were free to do so. At the same time, they did not have any legal obligations or threats involved if they chose not to. Considering government was involved at all, this is about as close as you are going to get to having the best of both worlds.

This summer's ruling has changed all this. Ideally, your rights end where mine begin. This ruling encroaches on this ideal. In fact, homosexual couples now have more legal rights than I do. For instance, I can be denied certain types of housing because I have children. Not every place wants children living in their establishment. I can understand this and it doesn't bother me. I believe a business has the right to make their own rules regarding who lives on their property. However, homosexuals can no longer be denied any type of housing, even if it is at a religious college. That is the very definition of special group rights, which is never a good thing.

The only real legal right homosexual couples have gained by this ruling is the right to sue anybody or anything who in any way appears to deny homosexuals equal access to anything, including marriage. And some groups have already threatened to do exactly that. This has the very real and great potential to seriously erode the freedom of religion and property rights. Considering the fact that not much is gained for homosexuals, it is a trade I am not willing to make. Whenever you talk about eroding individual freedom in order to grant group rights, it is a very dangerous and slippery slope.

In any case, we will know which way the wind blows in just 3.5 weeks.

"At the end of the day I am

"At the end of the day I am well aware of the fact that most of us will have to agree to disagree"

And that's exactly what we will be empowered to do as soon as government stops trying to define something that is ultimately the prerogative of your church. How ironic that the loudest voices against "activist judges" are the very ones who keep empowering them to make these decisions. Government should do nothing but handle the contracts that result from marriage (if necessary). The definition of marriage is a debate best left to the people and their churches.

So you favor "separate but equal" then?

Seems to me that went out fifty-plus years ago over in Kansas...

Plessy v. Ferguson was killed a long time ago.

Get into this millenium already!

MamaBear, et al

See my post below. There are already cases across the country where people's rights have been trampled because of this. It will only get worse. You are correct.

Healthnut4freedom

"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths." Proverbs 3:5,6

Good letter, fan

Your reply to her follow-up email:

"Neither does the government enter into the equation, and by no rights ought it be included in consideration of the marital relationship."

That made me think of a funny bit by Doug Stanhope (language warning): http://www.youtube.com/wa...
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"I killed the banks"

MamaBear

You are correct. This law does make people less free. Already religious institutions and individuals have been sued and lost because they did not accommodate someone gay. For example, a Jewish college in New York had to made accommodations for same sex couples in their married student housing. A Methodist Church Camp was sued by a lesbian couple and lost because they would not rent their facilities to them for a commitment ceremony. A doctor was sued and lost because he would not artificially inseminate a lesbian.

Rights should not be to groups but to individuals. What this will do is give more rights to one group while taking away the rights of another. Religious liberty is trampled upon because of this. It breaks my heart.

Healthnut4freedom

"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths." Proverbs 3:5,6

"What this will do is give

"What this will do is give more rights to one group while taking away the rights of another"

And the exact same thing happens when government defines marriage for -any- group. If Prop 8 passes we still have the same problem.

Any time we assign to government that which is not theirs, ...

we abdicate our own sovereignty" I agree w/you there!!

"The high office of President has been used to foment a plot to destroy the Americans freedom, and before I leave office I must inform the citizen of his plight."
- John Fitzgerald Kennedy

Any time we assign to government that which is not theirs, ...

we abdicate our own sovereignty" I agree w/you there!!

"The high office of President has been used to foment a plot to destroy the Americans freedom, and before I leave office I must inform the citizen of his plight."
- John Fitzgerald Kennedy

I agree 100% great letter

I have to admit that until Paul I was a bit confused on this issue. Now it is as clear for me as your letter. The government has no business in any voluntary associations between individuals. As always, Paul was way ahead. He looks as marriage as a contractual issue from a legal prospective and all other aspects of associations as personal and private. This is so clear when you think about it. No more tax issues, no fighting in politics to get the upper hand over a different group, no one model for the disolution of a "marriage". Two people can decide for themselves the extent of the contractual and or religous relationship and enforce this agreement under contract law.

Roger Hermann
Chicago, IL

B-I-N-G-O

And BINGO was his name-o....

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As to your friends worries about their kids education

"...their parental rights to control the teaching of moral issues to their kindergarten age child is being usurped by the state." Well guess what, that has nothing to do how a state defines who can be married but that way before that you abdicated the power to educate your child to the state. The state is not some business that some how works to make a profit and then gives you their profit. The states only source of income is its tax on you. Its a false idea that government can give you something you do not pay for. You pay for it in not only direct taxes but indirect taxes. The problem with this country is that people confuse what would be a good thing with what people should have a right to. As I read the Constitution and The Bill of Rights I do not see the right of every child to have public education. I also do not see Obama's claim that everyone has the right to health care in the Constitution. The Constitution proclaims that We The People have the right to be free and restricts the power of the government. If you want parental control then end government education. If you want your church to define marriage then end the states right to define it. You can not give the underlying control to government then bitch what they do with it.

I for one am against gay marriage and it is because I am a lesbian who is also a lawyer. Please do not make me a part of you government system! I do not want to enter into a state defined contract that allows the lawyers in a divorce to walk away with more then the people who were married. Let me just rent a u-haul, split up what is mine an hers and be done with it. Opting into the government system dose not make a relationship better is only prolongs and makes more expensive getting out of it.

It's interesting that you see it this way

A very close friend of mine just got married to her partner in San Mateo. I told her she could have it with all the legal hassles. I have been divorced. I know what a nightmare it is to get rid of a partner. And I have seen gay couples have children and then one just walk away with no strings attached. This happened to my friend years ago. It really ticked me off. She struggled and struggled while the other gal just had a great life. So, I said, yes they need to get married. They can have it with all of the legal stuff and maybe the children will get more protection. It is just interesting that you are so aware of the ramifications, also.

Healthnut4freedom

"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths." Proverbs 3:5,6

Well said. Why voluntarily hitch oneself to the government?

No way!

We, including so many Ron Paulites, have become so conditioned to believe that the government must provide us with so many things: education being one that most people have a hard time admitting is not the domain of the government.

Marriage and education, and by extension, pretty much every other personal decision that should be made among a family, ought to have nothing to do with the government.
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No government handouts...ever.

Dog/Cat Fight

Great and correct take Fano. However, this issue is now a political medicine ball because the people of California, I recall, voted this thing away several years back. It went to the courts, and the judges' ruled over the will of the people.

And this kind of crap just pisses people off.

Now the gay rights groups/lobby that is pushing their agenda (and make no mistake the gays are very organized) are in error in pushing this on California and should probably pick an easier fight.

At this point --all ideology aside—this is a political dogfight/catfight.

We must be prepared to stand up and challenge special interest groups –should I say Big Pharma, Big Oil, Big Military, Teachers Unions (can you believe the teachers union in California have run television and radio ads saying how wonderful they are and yet we have close to the worst performing schools in the country), and of course AIPAC.

Like the last few weeks have proven, special interest groups wield too much influence in this country and that is only because the people are asleep. (OUR FAULT!) It can change however, and these type of fights will need to be fought.

Except for one thing...

The right to marry cannot be voted away by popular vote.

No rights can.

That by itself is why Prop 22 before, and Prop 8 now, and Colorado's Amendemnt 2 back in the 90's, are all unconstitutional.

Beautiful excellent!!!

Beautiful excellent!!! Especially the last part. I think that is awesome!!

Imagine what that money could do for a better cause. 41 million dollars..

UGGH!!

Peace,

Liberty Girl

Current Law Imposes More Govt, Not Less

I think the current debate is rather muddled. This proposition is not about whether or not the government should or should not issue marriage licenses. This is about the legal definition of marriage. There are many serious and far reaching issues involved with this debate, but the actual issuing of marriage licenses is not one of them.

By allowing current law to stand (ie voting no on Prop. 8), you are agreeing to allow the government to impose religious values on private institutions such as churches, businesses, medical practices, and private schools. There is also the vital question of parental rights.

Governments all over the world currently define marriage, as has been the case for hundreds of years (despite what Badnarik incorrectly says in his video). What is marriage? Is it the uniting of a man and woman, any adult, an adult and a child, multiple adults, a person with an animal, a person with a piece of furniture, two or more animals, a uniting of inanimate objects? Surely most people would agree that marriage must have some sort of legal definition. You can't just say marriage means whatever we want it to mean. That would be ridiculous. It is actually necessary and fitting for there to be a legal definition of marriage. That is what this proposition is about - the legal definition of marriage. By allowing the government to change the traditional definition, we are actually setting ourselves up for more government intrusion, not less.

Furthermore, people who feel marriage can be defined in any way they choose obviously don't understand the concept of natural law. This is vital to a free and prosperous society. By allowing marriage to be redefined, you are actually allowing the government to once again go against natural law. This is true regardless of any religious or personal beliefs on the subject. Going against natural law is actually what has brought our country to the sad state it is currently in. Allowing the government to once again thwart natural law will do more harm, not less. If you don't understand this subject, a quick and easy (and non-religious) read on natural law is Richard Maybury's book Whatever Happened to Justice. This is not a perfect book on the subject, but he has the basics down and it's not long. I repeat, following natural law is vital to a FREE and prosperous society. Voting no on Prop. 8 is also voting no to natural law. I, for one, never want to be guilty of allowing more government intrusion into private institutions and going against natural law.

That was more malarkey than McCain put out on Tuesday

Marriage is a social contract, pure and simple, long before it was co-opted by churches in the name of "God's Law" or "natural law". Ask any Hapsburg, who used marriage for political means rather than religious.

Speaking of malarkey.....

Yeah, first of all you don't say anything relavent to the arguments I made, nor do you really make a point yourself. If you had studied about natural law, you would know it was never considered equivalent to God's law - they were 2 separate things. Perhaps you could stand to peruse Hugo Grotius' works for more clarification on this matter. And by citing the Habsburgs (which is the correct spelling, not Hapsburgs) you are actually agreeing with one of my main points. This is about a legal definition in regards to a legal contract. I know many people on this forum wish the government weren't involved in marriage, but it is and it has been for thousands of years. (A quick study of marriage in ancient Greece proves this point easily.) Prop. 8 does not address whether or not government should be involved in marriage. If people really want to get government out of marriage then they need to work to get their own proposition on the ballot. Prop. 8 will not get government out of marriage, even if you vote 'no'.

You just don't get it, do you?

Hide behind whomever Christian apologist again. I prefer that Solon guy myself. Common law over natural law, thank you very little!

Both "Hapsburg" and "Habsburg" are accepted as equivalent names. Go dig up Maxmillian I and ask him how HE spelled it.

Prop 8 does not get government out of marriage, WHICH IS EXACTLY MY POINT! It puts government INTO marriage, in a discriminatory manner that it does not belong in! Why? Not sexual activity, but because of gender! (How does one prove they are homosexual anyway short of the act itself?)

Let me try this one more time. If you don't get it then, you never will, and the rest of us will move on without you. I'll take it slow so you can understand it.

Government has a role in marriage why? To deal with tax and property issues. Those property issues included, in old times, family members who were considered property. Not in modern times, but it did back then. Marriage licenses were issued by the government so the government had a record of who was wed to who so if a property dispute came up, such as in an inheritance, the government as arbiter could sort it out. It was also used as a miscegenation tool to prevent mixed-race marriages (which was shot down in Loving v. Virginia). In modern times the property issues are dealt with through private contracts called pre-nups, wills, and government's role as arbiter comes into play as before, as well as a tax agent. But marriage licenses by government are still used as a discriminatory tool, but now for same-gender marriages. The "one-man-one-woman" argument is simple gender discrimination--Jane can marry Dick because she's a woman, but Tom can't because he's a man. Gender Discrimination 101 here, in private contracts, enforced by government.

So a court steps in (three of them, now) and says, no, government can't do that, the licenses still need to be issued without this discriminatory limit.

The government still has its role as a taxing agent here and as an arbiter, but that is the only role left. It no longer can play a discriminatory role, and all it can do now is play tax collector.

That's what marriage licenses are good for now--tax collection only. The next step to get government out of marriage, since they are now out of the gender discrimination game, is to get teh taxes assocaited with marriage removed as well. That's next.

When a marriage license is reduced to a worthless public piece of paper, it will go away. They used to not exist, and they really don't need to now.

Get it now? Removing the gender discrimination from marriage licenses removes the limits, and removes one more justification for having them in the first place, leaving only the tax issue left to remove.

I would have to disagree

The state amendments, of which there have been many, to "define marriage as between a man and a woman" are definitely intended to deny same-sex marriages as a legal union. They are not to force businesses, persons, or churches to recognize the union. That is a separate matter and is just as wrong.

Natural law is still an individual's interpretation of natural law. There are as many views on natural law as there are on religion. One person might say nature defines marriage between man and woman for procreation, yet another might say a commitment between two persons as marriage is genderless. Natural law is not as cut and dry as some make it out to be.

Voting 'no' on Prop. 8 is not voting 'no' to natural law. It is voting 'no' to allow the government to define it.

Still Missing the Point

The government IS and DOES legally define marriage - period! Whether you vote yes or no to Prop. 8 does not change this fact. Legally in California, marriage was previously defined as being between one man and one woman. The voters (aka the people) affirmed this with 61% of the vote in 2000. Activist judges (aka the government) redefined marriage to include homosexual relationships this past summer. I repeat, the government DOES set the legal definition for marriage. Voting no on Prop. 8 does NOT change this. Prop. 8 is about restoring the original legal definition of marriage according to the voice of the people.

And saying that natural law is just a matter of opinion is quite ludicrous. That is like saying gravity is up to individual interpretation. Like all scientific law, natural law is discovered, not "made". The whole idea behind natural law is to objectively discover those laws of nature and society which lead to justice, freedom and prosperity. If you had actually studied natural law you would understand the discovery process. You would also understand it is not about personal preferences. In this case, you can ascertain that in order to enjoy freedom, justice and prosperity, you must first have life. We haven't had modern fertilization techniques for very long, and the fact of the matter is, homosexual relationships do not create life. Furthermore, by studying societies over thousands and thousands of years, you can ascertain that societies are the most just, the most free, and the most prosperous when founded on strong families, not on what feels good. There is not nearly enough room here to discuss this topic fully, but this has been true in every successful society known to mankind. In fact, societies tend to come to an end when the family is weakened. If we ignore this fact (not opinion), then we do so at our own perril.

Nope.

Prop 22 was unconstitutional prima facie, and no vote of the people can enshrine in the law a violation of constitutional rights.

Go read the ruling before you comment, because you clearly don't understand the legalities at all.

Yep.

Um, I have read it, and despite your condescending tone, I can assure you that I do understand the ruling. In fact, I have used the actual language of the ruling in my arguments. The court specifically states homosexuality should be treated the same as ethnicity and be given equal protection under the constitution. That is what it says and that is the wording I have been using to explain the legal implications of this ruling. Furthermore, it states that to deny a homosexual couple the right to marry is the same as denying their humanity. In other words, they guarantee that homosexual marriage is a constitutionally guaranteed right in California akin to how the law should treat ethnicity. This is exactly what I've been saying. You really fail to make your points very well or say specifically what I have said that is wrong.

Rather than my not understanding the ruling, it seems to me that many people on this forum do not understand the ruling. I'm not sure that anybody on here grasps the full legal implications of equating sexual preference with ethnicity. Maybe instead of trying to sound high and mighty you could actually try making a logical argument based on the issues at hand. That would probably be more helpful to everybody, because your silly little jabs just aren't.

Whatever.

You talk a lot but say little. And you have not provided one quote, cited or not, from the ruling.

The CA ruling was based on gender discrimination as well. Sexual orientation was considered a suspect discrimination calss long before this came along. If you have a gripe with anything, it's that foundation.

BTW, SCOTUS agrees with the CA interpretation. See Romer v. Evans, Lawrence v. Texas, and Loving v. Virginia.

I grasp the equation of ehtnicity, gender, and sexual orientation completely. All three are considered both legally and philosophically as accidents of being, not actions of choice.

Now, if you think otherwise, then you go against known science and law and reveal your own ignorancr or bias.

One last thing. It's legal in Canada and many other nations, and now three states here. That genie isn't going back in the bottle whetehr you like it or not.

Forcing Gay Marriage

I'm not sure how CA is, but in OH churches can turn anyone away that they do not want to marry. Sometimes they require you to be members of the church, or attend pre-marriage classes. The Catholic church can refuse to marry couples if they do not sign a paper saying they will raise their children in the Catholic church. I would find it hard to believe that CA would force a church to marry any two people regardless of their genders.

If gay marriage should not be allowed because it does not produce children, then what about infertile persons? Should they not be allowed to marry? If Adam and Eve were the prototype of marriage, then marriage was not created for procreation, but rather for companionship.

The government is allowing you to vote on what the definition of marriage is, so vote your conscience, but don't pretend you are voting to uphold the freedom of religion. You are legislating morals. "I don't want the government to tell me what marriage is. I want them to tell you."

And while I'm on my soapbox (it really doesn't happen that often), allow same sex couples and single parents to ADOPT!

Legally Not the Same

Churches can and do refuse to marry people for a variety of reasons, but ethnicity cannot be one of those reasons. For instance, a Catholic church can turn a couple away because they are not Catholic. However, if a couple is Catholic, the church cannot refuse to marry them because of their ethnicity. That would set them up for a law suit they would be sure to lose. The church also cannot deny membership to a person strictly due to their ethnicity.

The ruling in California put marriage on an even par with ethnicity. They declared marriage between homosexuals to be a constitutional right. Just as you cannot deny constitutional rights to somebody because of their ethnicity, you now can no longer deny marriage to a couple because of their genders. That means that churches can no longer use homosexuality as a reason to deny marriage to a couple. And quite frankly, even though churches have been refusing to marry a variety of people for a variety of reasons for a long time, this is a hot button issue. I can very easily see same sex couples requesting marriage at a church just to test the legal waters. If a church refuses, they will be setting themselves up for a law suit they are bound to lose.

You see, this is what I've been saying all along. In the past, churches have been free to marry or not marry people as they choose. Freedom of religion was mainly intact. The California court decision has changed all that. I repeat, this ruling has made all of us less free, not more.

Uh, no.

Churches still can refuse those marriages under the Free Exercise Clause of the First Amendment. That always has been the case.

You imply that gender discrimination is perfectly OK in marriage. Common sense refutes that. So does the ruling itself:

"The idea that California's marriage law does not discriminate upon gender it incorrect. If a person, male or female, wishes to marry, then he or she may do so as long as the intended spouse is of a different gender. It is the gender of the intended spouse that is the sole determining factor. To say that all men and all women are treated the same in that each may not marry someone of the same gender misses the point. The marriage laws establish classifications (same gender vs. opposite gender) and discriminate based on those gender-based classifications. As such, for the purpose of an equal protection analysis, the legislative scheme creates a gender-based classification." (Source: In Re Marriage, page 17)

Again, go read the ruling.

Uh, yes.

Again, I have read the ruling. The court largely based their decision on the 14th Amendment of the Federal Constitution and the corresponding equal protection clause of the California constitution. You seem very confident that the 1st Amendment will trump the 14th if push comes to shove. Considering how the Federal Supreme Court has systematically stripped away or limited many of our rights by pitting one right against another (or claiming they don't exist in the first place, or making up rights that trump other rights, etc.) I can't for the life of me figure out where your confidence comes from. I could site many court cases where they have limited some rights in order to promote others. One very obvious example that most of us are familiar with is the ruling on McCain-Feingold.

Your attitude is especially puzzling considering the situation. No state has ever declared homosexuality to be a constitutionally protected right before, therefore, this specific situation has never been tested in court before. If you have a crystal ball to show us what will happen when these two come up against each other, I'm sure all of us would love to be in on the secret.

Wrong again.

The ruling was based entrely on CA law. So, no, yuou haven't read the ruling at all. had it been based on anythign in federal law, then an appeal would have been filed with either the 9th Circuit or the Supreme Court, and neither was done, because THERE WAS NO FEDERAL ISSUE RAISED.

My confidence comes from a little-known concept called "play between the joints" and a LOT of SCOTUS study.

My crystal ball says that you don't know your history regarding gay rights. SCOTUS declared such in Lawrence v. Texas, that landmark ruling that overturned Bowers v. Hardwick. It was given a foundation by Romer v. Evans, among others.

My crystal ball also says that the due process rights of one person cannot be used to infringe upon the First Amendment rights of another, PROVIDED that those First Amendment rights are not voluntarily waived in advance (as in, say getting a medical license?). That doesn't mean teh courts get it right--in fact, they get wrong more than they get it right, because they don't understand the fundamentals concepts of Liberty and individual rights, consent of the governed, and what trumps what and where. Witness Kelo and Raich as recent examples.

Homosexual acts can get one excommunicated from some churches

Thus, those churches will not be required to marry homosexuals, who--if they are practicing homosexuals--cannot be in full communion with the church.

Nothing in your argument above would lead me to believe anything will change in this regard just due to the failure of prop 8.

Churches can and do place regulations upon the behaviour of their members, and members whose behaviour is not in conformity with the church's standards--rules that each person voluntarily reaffirms their commitment to uphold--can be disciplined with respect to their membership in said institution. It is the same for any social or fraternal organization, from a stamp collecting club to a Moose lodge to a church.

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Exactly!

You prove my point without even realizing it. Churches have always been free to regulate membership based on behavior. But this summer's court ruling makes the act of homosexual marriage constitutionally guaranteed. That puts this behavior in a whole new ballpark. It is now a constitutionally guaranteed right. This is an extremely dangerous and slippery slope.

Churches are tax exempt organizations. (And no, I'm not starting a whole new debate about how the government uses taxes to legislate morality. I think we are all in agreement on that one and Prop. 8 will not change this situation one way or another.) I am always in favor of anybody or anything being tax exempt. But because they are tax exempt organizations, churches must not violate fundamental, constitutionally guaranteed rights. For instance, the Ku Klux Klan would not be able to declare itself a church and receive tax exempt status. That is because they deny membership to people based on ethnicity. This has been ruled unconstitutional. The same is now true of homosexual marriage. It is now a constitutionally guaranteed right in California. Churches will no longer be able to deny membership to married same sex couples and still retain their tax exempt status within the state. And as I have been saying all along, this will cause more government intrusion into our lives. We all hate the income tax around here. Now anybody who pays tithes to a church who denies homosexual marriage will no longer be able to claim those tithes for exemptions on state income tax returns. Again, higher taxes and more government intrusion. This will definitely weaken, not strengthen, churches and the freedom of religion.

This has been my point all along. This summer's ruling gives us more government, not less. This ruling gives us less freedom, not more.

Before the ruling, if you wanted to offer a baby up for adoption to a homosexual couple, you were free to do so. Nobody was stopping you. But if you felt this was wrong, you were also protected. Now, whether you think this is wrong or not, you must consider a married homosexual couple on the same footing as a heterosexual couple. In fact, Catholic adoption services have had to close their doors in Massachusetts because of this. Again, more government intrusion, not less.

Before, if your church wanted to perform a uniting ceremony for a same sex couple, you were free to do so. Civil unions were already legal in California. In fact, if your church wanted to, you could even call it a marriage. (The marriage just wouldn't be recognized by the state, but the church could recognize it if it wanted to, along with family, friends, neighbors, etc.) But if you didn't want to perform such a ceremony, you wouldn't have a potential law suit hanging over your head. Now that is not the case.

You see, whenever you turn a "can" or a "may" into a "must" or a "have to", that automatically translates into less freedom, not more. This is what the court has handed us - less freedom, not more.

I would highly suggest everybody read Hayek's book The Road to Serfdom. It is even on Ron Paul's reading list. It addresses this very issue of changing the definition of words in order to make people think they are getting more freedom when they are really getting less. This is a well worn tactic of governments. Even if you don't read the whole book, read ch. 11 titled "The End of Truth". It would help shed a great deal of light on this discussion and hopefully give you greater insight.

Uh, no.

Separate but equal is unconstitutional. Need I remind you of Brown v. Board of Education Topeka 1954? Applying a Plessy v. Ferguson standard to marriage, in direct contradiction to Loving v. Virginia, does not follow.

And if you have no idea what I'm referring to, then you need to do some research.

Uh, yes.

I'm sure you would love for me to say I have no clue what you're talking about. Sorry to disappoint. Being a doctoral student in constitutional law, I think I have a fairly good handle on these well known cases. And for what it's worth, I disagree with all your implied conclusions here.

And again, I assert that you are the one who needs to do a bit more research.

Then you better get a refund if you can't answer these:

- Which is superior, the rights of the individual or the powers of government?
- Do governments have rights?
- Do people have powers?
- Which came first, people or government?
- What does the Ninth Amendment truly mean?
- What does the Tenth Amendment truly mean?
- What does the Establishment Clause truly mean?
- What does the Free Exercise Clause truly mean?
- What does the combination of the Establishment Clause and the Free Exercise Clause truly mean?

Hell, even Barack "Top of my law class at Hah-vard" Obama can't get these right!

No, you prove my point!

My church considers adultery and homosexual activity a sin.

Membership privileges are not afforded to persons who are engaged in the following:
a) living together without benefit of legal marriage
b) homosexual activity
c) extra-marital sexual activity.

Persons who are members of the church and are found to be engaged in any of these are disfellowshipped if repentant (and they stop), or excommunicated if unrepentant.

Therefore, the church cannot be legally compelled to do anything for homosexual, as persons engaged in homosexual behavior are outside the realm of what is permissible to members of the church.

So please tell me, how "Churches will no longer be able to deny membership to married same sex couples and still retain their tax exempt status within the state."

The standard for personal behavior in my church is what people do. If they engage in homosexual activity, they are not keeping the standards of the church. How does them legally being married change the fact they they are still engaged in a behavior that goes against the standards of the church?

A man who is having an extra marital affair would not be permitted to join the church until he stopped that behavior, the same way. His behavior is the issue, just as it would be for the homosexuals.

And since we do not rent our facilities to non-members, or rent our ministers out to non-members to do marriages, we do treat all non-members equally, so there is no problem with discrimination.

Nothing in the Prop 8 law would forbid a church from regulating who can join based on their behavior.

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For the 100th time, this is not legally the same thing!

Adultery is not a constitutionally guaranteed right! If it were, then your church wouldn't be able to deny membership based on that, either.

The California court has made homosexual marriage a constitutional right. Do you not understand the difference? I'm not quite sure why you can't differentiate here. I already explained why homosexual marriage would be considered differently now. If you didn't read the post or just didn't understand, go back and try again.

You said it yourself!!!!!!

"The California court has made homosexual marriage a constitutional right."

EXACTLY. And yet the LDS church (and others) continues to exist, continues to not marry gay people, continues to not sanction gay marriage or recognize it, continues to not allow homosexuals to use the temples, continues to not allow members to be gay, and continues to be tax-exempt, while its donors continue to write checks that are tax deductible.....all of this IN SPITE OF "The California court [having already] made homosexual marriage a constitutional right"!!!!

How are they doing it, MamaBear?????

Because, under your theory, all of this should already be illegal, as, in your own words: "The California court has made homosexual marriage a constitutional right."

It is ALREADY a consitutional right, and yet the sky has not fallen! Even the title of the proposition makes it clear that HOMOSEXUAL MARRIAGE IS ALREADY A "RIGHT". And yet no churches have been stripped of their tax exempt status, have they?

So, for the 100th time....you need to go back and try again! It's just not clicking for you, Mama Bear. Maybe a nice warm bowl of porridge would help get those brain cells moving (but not too hot!).

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